Category: male violence

“She let’s him do it”. Formerly known as “she was asking for it.” (AKA “she made him do it”)

He has two loans with our company. The first loan was written by my direct (female) boss over a year ago, the loan is secured with his truck as collateral. The second loan was written by me. He had won an economy car in a card game and he wanted to borrow money on it. … Continue reading “She let’s him do it”. Formerly known as “she was asking for it.” (AKA “she made him do it”) →

Men Are Not Broken, Pt 2, from ovarit

My previous post featured a piece of writing from IceMountainFire called "Men are not Broken", and a discussion popped up about it on ovarit. Some of the comments have been deleted, like these... ...while comments like this are staying... Noticing, observing and critiquing male violence and encouraging women to avoid males because of the sheer … Continue reading Men Are Not Broken, Pt 2, from ovarit →

Dog meets rapist. Or why dogs are better than guns. (Bonus video at the end).

She lives in an area much like this one... ...and she used to walk 2 to 3 miles per day. She's not young, and walking has improved her health and well-being while keeping her mobile. That is, she walked until a convicted rapist moved into the neighborhood. He went to prison, he paid his debt … Continue reading Dog meets rapist. Or why dogs are better than guns. (Bonus video at the end). →

Sex Positivity.

Does there exist another activity that is mutually engaged in between males and women that is not only the pinnacle of intimacy and love, but that can also be a horrible act of violence? Other than sex? Is there any other activity that is classified as positive and good sometimes, while being classified as misogyny … Continue reading Sex Positivity. →

In Memoriam.

For Genevieve Bergeron.For Helene Colgan.For Nathalie Croteau.For Barbara Daigneault.For Anne-Marie Edward.For Maud Haviernick.For Maryse Laganiere.For Maryse Leclair.For Anne-Marie Lemay.For Sonia Pelletier.For Michele Richard.For Annie St-Arneault.For Annie Turcotte.For Barbara Klucznik-Widajewicz.For all of our Canadian sisters.We will remember with you.We will not forget. Jayne

In Celebration of Adrienne Shelly. Also, Sara Bareilles. (For the Waitress). She Used to be Mine.

I almost wrote about Adrienne Shelly a while back, when hbomax released a documentary about her life, as told by her husband... https://youtu.be/P7X1gw-2URc ...while most of it was her story, and it was interesting, and it celebrated her life, the ending ruined it for me, a little bit. We will talk about that, in a … Continue reading In Celebration of Adrienne Shelly. Also, Sara Bareilles. (For the Waitress). She Used to be Mine. →

The Manliest Holiday in the states is here, again.

Almost every year, I write something about Thanksgiving and how I fucking hate it. I hate the additional labor put onto women and girls, the celebration of a male that committed a complete genocide of an entire race of people, who also kept a stash of little girls for himself and his boyfriends to rape … Continue reading The Manliest Holiday in the states is here, again. →

CVS, Walgreens exerting patriarchal government ownership/enslavement of women and girls.

Here in the states, Walgreens and CVS are gleefully terrorizing women and girls who have obtained a prescription from their doctor. Pharmacists are scrutinizing each woman and girl who attempts to fill a prescription, in a gleeful show of domination, and their respective male owned companies are encouraging this particular sexism, misogyny, and terrorism... The … Continue reading CVS, Walgreens exerting patriarchal government ownership/enslavement of women and girls. →